Showing posts with label Milestones. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Milestones. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Milestones: Graduation, pt.2

I thought I'd post some pics of our graduation. I loved putting it all together and coming up with ideas. I hope you enjoy the pics... let me know if you have any questions. 

Our candy bar: This was one of Kahli's only requests. I had so much fun getting this ready, although it was pretty pricey. Definitely watch for clearance items and coupons. Also, I'm a firm believer in planning in order to save money. Ask early what the color scheme (if any) will be, and watch for seasonal/holiday candy markdowns. 





We have friends who have severe nut allergies, so that was definitely a consideration. We obviously choose candies that didn't feature nuts, but most have at the very least been processed with them. So we made sure we had spoons for unwrapped candy to prevent cross contamination, and I drew up this little labels so our smaller guests would be aware of items that contained allergy warnings. 


The Dessert Table We also had a tons of sweets beside the candy bar. This was my first shot at working with fondant and while I wasn't completely pleased with the results, I don't think it came out horrible! I used this recipe for marshmallow fondant and was very pleased with the results. 


We also had cake pops... yay!!! They were so fun and the kids loved them. I used 
 a basic recipe from Bakearella, however we used devil's food cake instead of the red velvet. This tutorial helpful also. Instead of Bakearella has an awesome book out showcasing some adorable possibilities for these. You can see lots of fun ideas on her site also.  To display them I just used a block of florist foam (styrofoam would work too, just didn't have any.) 

Another thing we did was cupcakes. You can't tell from the picture very well but some were in black and white polka dot wrappers, and others were in a black and white swirly wrappers. We also used the cupcake pick kit from The Celebration Shoppe; this site and blog are incredible. I could seriously get addicted to having parties just looking at this site! We complemented the theme with polka dot and swirly beverage napkins from Target and tried to incorporate those designs into the cake. 

Lastly, for the dessert table I used a great idea from a dear (and talented) friend of mine. We put down a disposable tablecloth and randomly placed some of our favorite photos of Kahli on it. Lastly I covered it with thin clear vinyl that I got in the fabric section of Walmart. This would be a great idea for birthdays or anniversaries too. People loved looking at the photos and some of old school papers of hers. 

 


One final thing that I'll share are our pom pom's! I love, love, love these. So cheap and so stinkin' cute. They now reside in Kahli's newly redecorated bedroom and we're hanging a few over Z's changing table. The color and pattern options are endless! There are tons of tutorials online so I'll leave you to check those out. Really, stinkin' easy. 



I'll leave you with some pics of our friends and family visiting. I wish I had took more pictures of the little details and the guests. I always question whether to run around snapping up photos, or to truly just enjoy being with everyone. It seems like sometimes when the camera is brought out people get nervous and guarded. It was a great day though and one we won't ever forget. There was plenty of food to go around and it really came together with very little stress for me.  One last thing we did was to run a slideshow in the living room with childhood photos of Kahli. I'll upload that at a later date. 

Thanks for looking at these photos, I hope they inspire you a bit. Max is already planning his 8th grade graduation (which is three years away.) It will look markedly different as he wants a orange and black skeet shooting theme! He apparently has the party bug too though as he requested black and orange whoopie pies to mimic the skeet. Oh boy! 







Sunday, June 19, 2011

Milestones: Graduation, pt.1

What a weekend! My girl did it... she graduated. It's unbelievable how quickly she went from this:


to this:
You momma's to little ones, you'll hear all the time that it goes by so quickly. You'll not your head in acknowledgement, and quietly you'll think you'll grab every minute and it will be different for you. That's what I thought. But time like so many other things sneaks up on you.

We are so proud of our girl. She is such an incredible woman. She loves the Lord. She loves her family. She loves her friends.

She is funny. She is compassionate. She is artistic. She loves to laugh. Loudly. She loves music (and her iPod.) She is an incredible teacher. She has incredible patience.


She makes me smile. She makes me laugh. She has a sense of humor that takes it's time. She may not crack jokes left and right, but when she does... baby, prepare yourself, it's gonna be a good one.

Where will she go from here? Who knows?! The future is bright, and most importantly she's seeking the Lord for His direction.

I shared on Facebook that 18 years ago next month a 17 year old girl knelt before an altar and made an ultimatum to God. You see after making an appointment for an abortion, this girl's dad left a simple Post It note on Psalm 127:14-17 and wrote three little words that would change my life, and my daughter's life: "think about it." Kneeling before that altar, I told God that I would keep this baby but that He would have to provide. He has never let us down. When I have been faithless, He has been faithful. She has always been surrounded by people who love God, and point her to Him.


Kahli, we are so proud of you and love you so much. And to us... baby you are the world!



Saturday, May 28, 2011

Seasons

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1 


Seasons ending:






Season's beginning: 





 Today was a time to laugh
 a time to rejoice
 a time to dance
 a time to heal
 a time to embrace
 a time to love.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

You're Gonna Miss This


 Those who know me, know that I have been an emotional wreck the past week or so. There is so much going on in our lives that I guess I just don't know how to process it all. We are adopting... duh... just in case that  wasn't obvious. Our daughter is graduating from high school. Our niece is also graduating from high school (1,350 miles away.) Our dear friends are holding a baby shower for us this weekend.  The last two events are wonderful things, however met with a bittersweet edge. You see I will not be able to attend my niece's graduation, and her mom (my bestest friend... and sister-in-law) will not be able to make it to my baby shower. While I'm so happy about both events, my heart so deeply weeps that there are missing pieces to both. I think beyond just the missing, there are so many emotions due to the fact that we have been best friends since Gab (my niece) and Kahli were itty-bitties. We've been through so much, and it is so weird to be at the end of a chapter together (but separate.)


And that leads to my next wave of emotion... how quickly the past 17 years have passed. How did it happen? Where did time go? Being a young mom makes it even more weird to me. Kahli is the age I was when I had her. I can't put it in to words, but it's such a weird feeling to hit this mark. She has been with me for half my life. Her life has gone by so quickly, and it makes me realize how very young I was when I had her. I guess in my emotional state I've been thinking a lot about that lately too. Getting older... not in a oh my word I'm so old way. But in a way that it amazes me how quickly this life zooms by. There are so many moments that we think we'll hold on to forever, but time goes by and they're gone. A friend shared a quote with me last night from Ann Voskamp that resonates with me today as we come to a crossroad of journeys ending and journeys beginning: the only way to stop time is to be present in it. And it's true, I can't redo yesterday, and worrying/planning/thinking about tomorrow is fruitless. Right now, this is all I have. This moment to live in. To hold, To cherish. 


Like most of my ramblings I have no idea if this makes sense. Maybe it's just that I needed to get it all out. I feel like the past few years have been such a new chapter in our lives, so many changes, and maybe they are all just catching up to me now.

They're good changes... wonderful changes... but sometimes I just wish I could go back: to snuggling my little girl, lunch dates at Olive Garden.... just for a moment. It makes me think of the song, You're Gonna Miss This.... we're always in such a rush for tomorrow, but one day, I'm going to miss this very moment too.


Friday, October 29, 2010

W8-10: Strides

Max has always struggled with speech difficulties which have in turn made reading very frustrating. Our belief has always been that it would happen, and our desire has been not to quench his love for learning. Last year we were blessed to have an incredible woman work with him in our local school. Finally things started to make sense for him with reading. While he is no longer working with her, she provided us with the same curriculum she was using and we have used that for Language Arts this year. The past few weeks Max has taken off, it's all starting to come together and we're seeing major growth spurts. One of the difficulties of having a late reader is finding books that are at his reading level, without being babyish. The other night he pulled out his dad's bible and proceeded to begin reading it out loud, then he went and grabbed a childhood favorite, Katy and the Big Snow and proceed to read the entire thing to us on his own. AMAZING! His dad and I were so proud, and he was beaming.

I entitled this post "Strides" because that's what it feels like the past few weeks have consisted of. One of the definitions for strides is: to take a single long step, as in passing over an obstruction. It feels like as of late we've been trying desperately to scale various obstructions. This time of year is my absolute favorite, yet it is also the hardest time of year for me emotionally. I have to force myself to cling to God's word and to focus on getting out and about. There are bad days, but over time, I've learned to plow through. I'm beginning to see the clearing and focus on the upcoming holidays. Family, friends, (food), fun, and fellowship... my favorite F's. So making strides is what we've been about.. sometimes it's a lot of baby steps that help us lead up to that "single, long step," and sometimes it just comes out of nowhere and another obstruction is placed behind us.

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Milestones: First

16 years and seven months ago she became first. My first daughter. My first true love. My first glimpse into what it was like to see a little piece of me in something so miraculous. My first true test of faith. My first. 11 years ago she became my first. My first to go off to school. My first on her first day of school. Today: Her first. Her last. Her first day of the last year of school. How quickly time has flown by.



How many accomplishments and struggles. How many books... seriously, how many? I never thought this day would come so quickly. That time would go by so fast. I am so proud of her. Proud of the advantage that she has. The advantage of having a personal relationship with Christ, and a strong one at that. I spent my senior year pregnant with her. Recovering from the consequences of rebellion , broken hearted, scared. By the grace of God (and a father who loved me...enough to encourage me to not take my child's life) I gave birth to my daughter. I remember kneeling at the altar, "telling" God that I would keep this child but He would have to take care of her.


Oh, and He has... He has been so faithful to her. His name has not only been written on her heart. It has been the song and the cry of her heart. She is wholly and completely God's. At times I think she questions her testimony, somehow feeling as thought she has less to offer, or that somehow she doesn't have an amazing show of what God has done. But rather, the decisions she has made and her commitment to Christ is the show of what God has done. Her life is a testimony to God's faithfulness. Oh how He loves her, and how she loves Him. First... there are lots of firsts in the last 16 years and seven months, but the biggest first is the relationship between Father and daughter.



How He Loves Us
He is jealous for me
Love's like a hurricane,
I am a tree
Bending beneath the weight of
His wind and mercy
When all of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory
and I realize just how beautiful You are and how great your affections are for me.


Oh, how He loves us so
Oh, how He loves us
How He loves us so.


Yeah, He loves us
Oh, how He loves us
Oh, how He loves us
Oh, how He loves.


We are His portion and
He is our prize,
Drawn to redemption
by the grace in His eyes
If grace is an ocean, we're all sinking
So heaven meets earth like a sloppy wet kiss and my heart turns
violently inside of my chest
I don't have time to maintain these regrets when I think about the way


He loves us,
Oh, how He loves us
Oh, how He loves us
OH, how He loves


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Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Milestones: Eleven

Eleven years ago, I experienced for the second time the happiest moment in my life. Pure bliss. Happy Birthday Max!